Dear Charming Lady List members!

This newsletter will be helpful if you are new in this adventure of searching for a life partner in afar away country. If you are experienced user, it may happen that you also do not know many details that may be really helpful for you!

Just recently I discovered that many men having the intention to contact a lady represented on the site actually have a very little idea of how to do this. So, I thought it would be reasonable to explain you some things here.

So, you see a beautiful girl and don't know how to start! You may choose one of the ways that seems to be more reasonable for you.

Any way of contacting a lady has a same first move: getting her address.

1. GETTING A LADY'S ADDRESS.

  • The very first thing you should do is purchasing her address (click "Order my address" button in her profile) and you'll receive her address in couple minutes after providing a payments through our site.
  • I must say that the most impressive way to introduce yourself and to get a lady's address is to send her some flowers. Do you remember that you get her address FREE OF CHARGE if you send flowers or gifts??? Take a look.

    I must admit that not many men realize WHAT address they are going to receive? Well, to answer this question take a look at the line that you can see in each profile: "Her contact information available". You see there:

  • postal address.
  • postal address, phone.
  • postal address, phone, e-mail.

    It explain WHAT exactly you are going to receive! Some girls allow us provide their phone numbers and then we do it. Some girls do not let us send their phone numbers to men and of course, we cannot break our permission! But if you don't get her phone number from us it doesn't mean you cannot get it from her directly. Unlike many other agencies and sites we DO NOT prevent our clients to exchange ANY information, to send each other phone numbers, e-mail addresses, faxes, etc. Just write her a letter and ask her to send you her phone number or e-mail address if she has the one.

    After you get an address it is up to you which way to contact her you choose.

    2. WAYS TO INTRODUCE YOURSELF TO A LADY.

    The next move you have to do is writing a nice introduction letter. It must be not short, but also not too long as you may tire a girl to death still before she answers you :)! Start it telling a girl the reason you are contacting her: why did she attract your attention? Tell a few nice compliments to her! "Women love with their ears" as a Russian proverb says! A woman WANTS to hear how beautiful her eyes are and how shining her smile is :)) Tell about yourself briefly: your name, height, age, the place you live. Tell about your views on a woman, relationship, family... Are you romantic person? Why do think you are romantic? Don't forget to ask her MANY questions. We are a human being and like if some one is interested in our inner thoughts and feelings :)

    After a letter is ready, select a way you would like it to get to her.

  • Mail her a letter with your photograph by snail mail. As anything else this way has a good and a bad sides: on one hand it is an economical way, however on the other hand I believe only around 80% of mail can reach the addressee. So, there is no guarantee if the lady receives your letter. It is a bad side :(
  • Send your introduction letter through our mail forwarding system. Let me remind that we provide a guaranteed letters delivery to EACH lady. We pass letters ONLY to our girls IN PERSON. Normally a lady receives your letter within 1-2 days after you send it! More over, we guarantee her reply. Of course, it can be positive or negative (sorry!), but you will definitely will know for sure what reaction to your presentation was! I can say that there are not many refusals that we send to our clients. You may expect it if for example, you are older than the age limitation that a lady displayed in her profile. Unfortunately our ladies also refuse almost all Muslims especially if they live in Arab countries. I am sorry to tell this, but it is reality and we have to consider it!
    It's easy to send a letter through our mail forwarding service: just click "Send me a letter" button in her profile!!!
  • You may send this letter to her through any other personal delivery service (like DHL, etc.)

    3. COME AND MEET HER IN PERSON!!!

    Some men prefer to meet ladies first and then to communicate. Well, this is also a way! We can provide a very helpful assistance so that you

  • don't waste time for getting in contact with ladies (it is especially not easy if they speak a very little English);
  • don't have any problems of searching for accommodation and doing a very simple things that may convert into a big problems for a visitor;
  • meet ALL girls that you would like to (we guarantee arranging all meetings that you order with us

    To get these and many other very good things order "Personal Tour". You'll see how favorable this option is comparably to a trip that you may take without our assistance. Don't waste your time and money!

    If you still don't want we to help you in all your needs, you may just book an apartment with us in Odessa, Kiev, St.Petersburg. See Our apartments.

    You are welcome :)!!!!

    Sincerely yours,
    Natasha Varetskaya, Ph.D.